All topics are on the table it started off as MR related but now we are discussing more things about me. I realize that everyone is different and some people have had a lot of trauma in their lives to work through not including this stuff. I have been lucky in that regard and my failures as a H have to do with me becoming lazy in the marriage.
I went last week and we discussed what my goals where, what is my purpose in life and things like that. I told my IC that maybe something was wrong with me because I am a happy and content person. She said why is there a problem with that? I couldn't answer the question other than my W was not content so I felt like maybe I was doing something wrong. My IC said well maybe she is the one with the problem.
