[Quote} Wondering what she is thinking or doing is not going to help and it will drive you mad. [/Quote] Man I wish I could lighten my mental load here. She likes to retreat into fantasy land to avoid stress, and has perfected the art of mental disappearing. Not sex fantasy, more the when the cowardly lion sang "if I were king of the forest." So it's hard to get into her head on a good day, much less when she's agitated!
