Originally Posted By: Benni8
'I guess' you could call a date?

So you met this women? How? A Dating Website?



So, I met her on bumble. We started to talk. We arranged to get together for drinks. After the arrangement, but before we met up I messaged her and said hey "I don't think I am ready to go on any sort of romantic date. I am really just looking for friends. She pointed out that I was on a dating app. I replied that was a very fair point, and I was going to delete the account. She asked if we could still get together for drinks as friends. I said okay (I'm lonely, and thought it would just be friendly) So I gave her my number, and deleted the app. (I have ZERO dating/meeting apps that I use). So we met for drinks. She crossed the friend boundary, which made me uncomfortable, but I tried to push that thought out.

I can't push that thought out anymore. Which is why I told her hey, I can't talk to you or see you (My exact words are 'I am cutting this off right now') because I need to protect,grow, and focus on myself.


Married 9: Together 11
M:37 W:35
S:2 D:7
Bomb dropped 6/3/2017
W moved out 7/1/2017
Separation Filed: 8/1/2017
Modified to Divorce: 8/21/2017
Divorced: 10/5/2017