Originally Posted By: Jmstl
So the person I met Last week, wanted to pursue a relationship. I have told her that I am not ready for that. That one is what I guess you would call a 'date'

The one from last night, I told LAST NIGHT, that I am not ready and need to focus on myself. I wasn't saying that about her, but about ANYONE in general. Last night was NOT a date. Last night was nothing more than two people sharing a meal, and talking about life. There was no romantic spark there at all.


And I will clarify, that there was no romantic spark last night, because there was NOT supposed to be.

I am horrible at trying to explain this, sorry.

I have been on basically date with one woman, and just friendly dinner with the other, it's the simplest I can explain it.

I feel like I have enough 2x4s to build a damned house.


Married 9: Together 11
M:37 W:35
S:2 D:7
Bomb dropped 6/3/2017
W moved out 7/1/2017
Separation Filed: 8/1/2017
Modified to Divorce: 8/21/2017
Divorced: 10/5/2017