Daisy, their all bipolar. Bipolar-Cake eaters Don't let him blame these conscious decisions on something other than himself. They fall under this Fairytail spell or it has been described as a Fog, when they engage with this OW. All endorphins and no complications.
You can't break them of this spell, but you can enable and extend it. So do the things that you can so as to not enable it. DB, 180, GAL
Remeber this as it is easy to forget. Respond don't react. If you are getting emotional don't communicate with him. It sends the message that you are still there waiting if plan A fails. Wrong message.
A Much better message is that you are moving along with or without and he'd be lucky if you are available with he wakes from this spell.
I know you may feel you have made mistakes. We all do. That's why this group is so important. Emotions get in the way.
You have been doing very well.
M 53 W 54, M since 98 D15, D19 8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM until 10/14 7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR 12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.
