Good! If you can learn not to bring it up then she may just postpone it indefinitely. But every time you bring it up guess what, she will be full steam ahead. Don't think she's changed her mind simply because she's not talking about it, she hasn't.
So...couple of mixed signals from the crowd here. If I suspect an EA, or some kind of emotional tie-up with someone else, is talking about it the same as taking about the M? I know "detach" is the rule here, but at some point, the potential elephant in the room realistically has to be pointed out. Or am I totally missing it?
Aside from that, I'll pull back on pressure. I understand that causes issues.
W told me this morning (spontaneously, I didn't ask )that she really appreciated my calling and making her laugh after her fender-bender yesterday. Said she felt very loved and gave me a hug. So many confused messages...