Now, give it time. Lots of time. Consistently keep doing that and that will help with detachment and dropping the rope. All of what you mentioned is good.
Thanks. I also just messaged the woman I met with last week, and let her know that I was cutting it off. You guys are right. I am opening myself up to an EA, and just further hurt.
Married 9: Together 11 M:37 W:35 S:2 D:7 Bomb dropped 6/3/2017 W moved out 7/1/2017 Separation Filed: 8/1/2017 Modified to Divorce: 8/21/2017 Divorced: 10/5/2017