I've let most of my anger go at this point, but I don't know that I'll ever forgive STBXW for that.
Add me to that list with you and dusty. I think I still have some anger over how this has affected my kids and I will have the hardest time forgiving her for that. She can throw whatever crazy she wants at me and I can handle it, but to see the kids go through this is the most enraging part - this is why the selfishness part is so maddening to me. How did you actually think this was going to be okay for the kids? Now it's playing out in real life and she's seeing that they're not going to be 'okay'.
I know kids will accept it over time and we will have to support them through this, but they never deserved this.
I think for me, she has to show true remorse about this, on top of whatever EA she had for me to consider recon.
