To be fair, you are reading pretty much all of this wrong.
You are only kidding yourself thinking the way you are.
Just to make this clear, NOTHING you can say will change her mind.
She is having divorce parties and removing tatoos - she doesn’t want you in a romantic sense anymore.
This forum helps people improve themselves, that in turn creates a better environment for the walk away spouse to consider you an option some time in the future.
Its going to be a long and very painful journey but you will come out the other end.
But only when you accept that there is no magic formula.
You reading into 'hugs' and 'walls coming down' from her just show how new you are to this (we all were) - it means nothing to her at the moment you are an inconvenience to her.
But as I said… it’s a long v painful road, but there are some success stories.
