Well after weeks of waiting for her to initiate some type of reconciliation talk. I am taking things into my own hands.

Rather than blindsiding I plan to purpose this conversation for this weekend.

“Hey, I’d like to talk with you about us and our relationship, figure out where we’re going and what this all means. How does Saturday work for you?”

How does this sound?


M 53 W 54, M since 98
D15, D19
8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM
until 10/14
7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR
12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.