Jmstl's thread-Part 3

[Kylo]

Definitely shouldn't have asked about the divorce party. I did a lot of similar comments in the beginning, I don't know why, but it shows pursuit and can lead to other unproductive reactions.

The milestones hurt: BD, separation, papers filed, final D; but I think the real timeline is the fog tunnel. That's what has to happen for any reconciliation to take place. Anything that happens in the fog has less meaning and permanence.