One of my GAL activities is working on my fitness, and it is really going a long way to keeping my spirits up. I'm seeing muscles down my abs I've never seen before. The down side is they are in a place no one else will ever see them! But I like it.
What I wonder about is how the W is taking it. My guess is she notices it (she did point out a new visible muscle once); but her BPDish personality previously would tell me I care too much about my looks. That my weight loss was going too far. At one point she admitted that it made her feel bad that I was having success and she wasn't (which I believe to be the truth, and what was behind her comments).
So here I am with GAL clashing with a 180. It is a moot point since I'm going to keep doing what I am doing.
M: 41 W: 41 Married 2003 2 boys 9 & 6 Bomb Dropped May 2017