Once again glad you're doing so well! I would not tell your W about your plans for the house for three reasons:
1. I don't think it will impact whether she moves out at all. If you want her to move out that's a separate issue and you should tackle that head on -- be assertive and tell her you want her to move out if that's what you want.
2. I'm sure if you tell her you want to keep the house it will lead to some negotiating on her part. If she believes she's going to give something in any way then she's going to want to get something. You're much better off negotiating everything at once than each thing in serial.
3. You're going to need to play a bit of poker in negotiating your divorce and better not to show your cards in advance
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Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11 Start Reconcile: 8/15/11 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced) In a New Relationship: 3/2015
