You are not getting it...

You say 'snap back' because you believe this isn't really her. That another 'her' is underneath.

Sorry to break it to you.. but that girl you knew has gone. This person wont be the same again.

When you completely accept that and go through the pain of acceptance can you start to move on yourself.

After that who knows.. because becoming that person is the only way you come close to even having a chance of genuinely recon with a WAS