I feel the same way about my wife the way you do. But we have to gain our respect back. We have to!!!!! She's telling you she's having a divorce party, you might not think it's disrespectful, but it is, she knows you don't want a divorce. I think you should of left that question alone. I don't think that answer made you feel deep down inside, you already knew the answer because one of her friends told you. She needs to see you as a man, the man she married. I know you don't won't to show her that, that bothered you but gaining respect is what we have to do to get them out of their fog. IMHO
M:37 W:37 T:11 M:10 S17, S13, S10, S4 BD:06/28/17 OM confirmed 07/20/17 Recon the M 10/29/17 Working hard:2gether
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