I'll share a little about my sitch that may be helpful. Right now, W is full steam ahead on the D. But about 2 months ago, before she filed, she said something along the lines of "If you asked me to make a decision now, I would decide to leave". I really regret not telling her to move out then and there.

The thing is, you'll never reach a "full try". You'll always think there's one more thing you can try or do differently.


Me-47,XW-43
S13,S16
M:18
BD:4-23-17
W filed:7-17-17
(5 months of in-house separation hell)
W moved out:1-6-18
D granted:2-15-18
Decree signed:3-29-18

Your future is out there. Go find it.