Honestly, B, nothing really. She is still in the mindset of the D 100% right thing to do. I need to give it time. I jokingly asked if she was going to have a divorce party and she said yes, her friend was setting one up. I laughed and said you too can celebrate together. She kind of grimaced slightly and said "Well it's not exactly something I really want to celebrate" To me, there is still conflict in her.
I hope that through time, I can help resolve that conflict and slowly lead her back to recon.
Married 9: Together 11 M:37 W:35 S:2 D:7 Bomb dropped 6/3/2017 W moved out 7/1/2017 Separation Filed: 8/1/2017 Modified to Divorce: 8/21/2017 Divorced: 10/5/2017