That sounds good man!! Hope you feel like you've gotten some control back. Good on the GAL and NC this weekend. Enjoy and keep her out of your mind as much as possible.
She's going to keep texting you here and there. Just remember that you want to reply about businesslike stuff with short responses and other stuff you can just ignore.
Enjoy the weekend! Hey maybe turn off your phone at the lake
Hey all; just got back into town. I had zero communication with WW after I sent a quick text about her father.
On the drive home I got an itch to contact her and ask if she wants to get together to talk about our R (that's is only if she hasn't put D papers in my apartment while I was gone - not home yet). I want to explain what I want in a marriage to feel loved (basically following the DR book).
I know this is prob not a good idea so I came here first of course. I am probably just have a moment of weakness. I just really miss her.
M:30 W:28 T:9 MR:2.5 NoKids Seperation 1: 9/16-12/16 Move back in: 1/17 BD: 8/15 She moved out: 9/1
Just heading out Chris but I saw your post and wanted to quickly respond.
Don't text her anything. I know you miss her and everything, just don't contact her. Don't do it and don't say anything you said you posted to her right now in your sitch.
Gotta run, but good to hear you had a great weekend.
If you can wait on an a responce from one of the Vets. Multiple times now i have pushed ahead with things but when i take there opinions and use them things have worked out better for me..
Yea; understood. I guess I'm just having trouble figuring out in my head how I am "fighting for my M" which is what I want to be doing bc I want the M to work out. Like how would I explain what I am doing is fighting for her?
M:30 W:28 T:9 MR:2.5 NoKids Seperation 1: 9/16-12/16 Move back in: 1/17 BD: 8/15 She moved out: 9/1
Understood; that is the part I am hung up on to be honest. But it does make sense.
She just texted me asking if she could use our joint CC points we accumulated to buy flight to a wedding we have at the end of this year - it is her friend. She said, "can i book my flight with our joint points; do you care? I might owe you a little".
M:30 W:28 T:9 MR:2.5 NoKids Seperation 1: 9/16-12/16 Move back in: 1/17 BD: 8/15 She moved out: 9/1
I'm not a vet, but I used to play doctor with my wife.
My wife (now XW) would tell me all sorts of things. One time she told me that if I'd just treated her like a roommate for the few weeks prior, then she wouldn't be divorcing me. If I'd written down all of the various things she told me, it would've filled a small book. My biggest issue was that I believed the bullsh*t. She kept me on the hook while she ate cake.
Is that what your wife is doing? I don't know, but if I were a betting man, I'd put my money on bullsh*t. (Something about that statement doesn't sound quite right.)
