I just got off the phone with a marriage coach. He isn't a DB coach. I paid for another coach before I came here. He told me to take control of the situation and tell my wife she needs to move out. I don't know how to feel about that yet. I still haven't given DB, 180s and detaching a chance. Should I jump straight to telling her I'm moving on with my life you need to move out and let me find my happiness or be a little more patient with DB? Suggestions.
M:37 W:37 T:11 M:10 S17, S13, S10, S4 BD:06/28/17 OM confirmed 07/20/17 Recon the M 10/29/17 Working hard:2gether
Onward and forward
This process is not a sprint it's a marathon! Patience, Patience, Patience.