T.....getting out of limbo. Knowing that if I just sit around and wait for her to change her mind it's probably not going to happen. By sitting around I mean thinking that she will snap out of it just based on GAL, 180, etc. It seems most of the people who have had success was because they took some sort of decisive action whether it be separation or D, maybe it was exposing the A but they took some sort of action. I read in a really old post that rarely does the little-bo-peep method work.

Now in some sitch's you can truly see the WW/WH is not 100% out the door but for others the situation is not as positive. So for me if GAL, 180, etc. doesn't work then what actions are left. The only thing I have left is to file for D and see if that wakes her up (obviously not as a trick but only when I am willing to accept the consequences).


Married 14, Together 17
M: 44, W: 43, D: 8, D: 6
M: 46, W: 45. D: 10. D: 8 (CUR)
Bomb Dropped: 5/28/2017
Separation Date: 6/17/2017
Divorce Filed: 2/7/2018
Divorce Final: 4/12/2018