Thanks Dusty and Doodler. Your advice has helped me to lean toward not telling her.
Dusty, I do remember that strange cohabiting proposal your W wanted - what a horror! I'm a little confused though. Did you tell your W that you wanted to keep the house?
Doodler, I have talked to my L. She said I'm free to discuss the house sitch with my W, as long as I don't fight with her. But I think it may be in my best interest to keep it to myself.
Me-47,XW-43 S13,S16 M:18 BD:4-23-17 W filed:7-17-17 (5 months of in-house separation hell) W moved out:1-6-18 D granted:2-15-18 Decree signed:3-29-18