Thanks Dusty and Doodler. Your advice has helped me to lean toward not telling her.

Dusty, I do remember that strange cohabiting proposal your W wanted - what a horror! I'm a little confused though. Did you tell your W that you wanted to keep the house?

Doodler, I have talked to my L. She said I'm free to discuss the house sitch with my W, as long as I don't fight with her. But I think it may be in my best interest to keep it to myself.


Me-47,XW-43
S13,S16
M:18
BD:4-23-17
W filed:7-17-17
(5 months of in-house separation hell)
W moved out:1-6-18
D granted:2-15-18
Decree signed:3-29-18

Your future is out there. Go find it.