Seems really early in the process after 14 years of M, Joseph. What do you think filing would give you that you don't have now?

The D process adds more conflict, if anything, and makes detachment/low contact more difficult in some ways from my experience

Me: 53 H:38
T:20 M:14
BD ILYB etc 10/15, H diagnosed severe depression
S 1/16
PA 4/16
H filed 1/17