holding, I am in the same boat with the house as you know. The W had proposed some co-owning the home scenario after divorce to stabilize the kids and we would be the ones that move in and out when we had the kids. I said no because its a terrible idea. IMO I wouldn't tell your wife your intentions yet, I did the same thing and she had the house market valued $25,000 above what I can get for it, coincidentally that is the same value as one of her 401k funds!
