Thanks LiM.

Well, I am coming up on month #3. I have no proof of an affair but no longer snooping. Not sure if it matters or not since she has moved out but we are not working on our R. I know I will be fine, my confidence is great just trying to feel my through it. Since I don't know 100% of an A it makes it hard to determine how nice or not nice I should be and/or the level of patience to have.


Married 14, Together 17
M: 44, W: 43, D: 8, D: 6
M: 46, W: 45. D: 10. D: 8 (CUR)
Bomb Dropped: 5/28/2017
Separation Date: 6/17/2017
Divorce Filed: 2/7/2018
Divorce Final: 4/12/2018