You are right. I just get weak when the heat is on. I have to control myself. It will be a big 180 for me to turn her down. I wonder how she will feel after that. I know I shouldn't worry about that, just wondering.
Dont even let yourself get in that situation. I would NOT be willing to have sex with my W while she was in an active A. Doing that may make you feel better for a moment but to her, it means she still has you on the hook. She needs to truly feel that she has lost you. Dont go down this path.
Me: 48 y/o W: 47 y/o Together: > 20 yrs BD: Dec '15, then S 2nd BD: Mar '16, then I filed for D April '16: started piecing
