TX/Sandi.......so if your confidence is up how long do you hang out in Limbo period? It seems like in every situation I have read the LBS either filed themselves or if not already separated the LBS threatened to kick them out and that did the trick? What are your thoughts and recommendations because I believe in both of your sitch's that is what each of you had to do or Sandi I think you mentioned that is what your husband told you. Could you both give your opinions? thanks!
Personally I shy away from the "how long to stay in limbo" question. I believe the answer is different for different people. I've thought about it a lot and I don't think there is a magic number of weeks or months, or ever years. I'll answer like this. When the thought of ending the marriage is more appealing to you then remaining in limbo then you've hit your limbo limit.
