So then, should I basically 180 her again, and start pretending that I don't care?

I know going forward I wont say 'I will be here for you'.

I mean, she apparently is so adamant in her mind that we are not compatible that whether im hot or cold won't matter. I am just not sure how to handle it.

Also, if anyone knows about personalities, She is and ENFJ and I am an INTP. I am just not sure how to get this to work.


Married 9: Together 11
M:37 W:35
S:2 D:7
Bomb dropped 6/3/2017
W moved out 7/1/2017
Separation Filed: 8/1/2017
Modified to Divorce: 8/21/2017
Divorced: 10/5/2017