Wonderfool,

You are exactly right. That's what I meant, if I confused things, my fault. Use the opportunity to listen, validate and be an ear. Try your hardest to not ask questions about the R or M. It will be hard, but if she sees that you can listen and not bring up the R or M, she might start letting her walls down and seek you out for convo.

M:37 W:37
T:11 M:10
S17, S13, S10, S4
BD:06/28/17
OM confirmed 07/20/17
Recon the M 10/29/17
Working hard:2gether

Onward and forward

This process is not a sprint it's a marathon! Patience, Patience, Patience.