Lost in Austin - Possible WAW

[woundedfool]

JDub,

I think every opportunity you get to have a conversation with your wife you should. In those moments you can gauge her attitude andjust be an ear. That let those moments pass you by.

Just to clarify for jdub (and joejoe1 feel free to correct me if I am not reading you correctly):

You should use an opportunity of a conversation to "just be an ear" as joejoe1 states by listening and validating her concerns. Its actually less of a conversation, and more of letting her vent.

But do NOT seek out those conversations. That will come off as trying to force R talks, and be clingy and create pressure on W.