How nice of you to keep her dirty little secret for her. Limbo [censored]. It's soul crushing and it'll literally kill you. This affair prospered because his ex wife and you both kept their secret. Why? Who knows. Affairs almost always die when drug into the light of day/truth so I never understand why people keep the dirty secrets of cheaters. Oh well, all I'll say is limbo will continue as long as you allow it to continue. You get a say in this too and being a doormat will cause your WW to lose whatever shred of respect she has left for you. Nobody ever gets their WS back by being a doormat. Good luck.
