No 2x4s needed or warranted! It's healthy I think to get to the point where you don't feel their karma or life is your business. Or vice versa.

And FB? Well, that just sounds like a boundary to me. You're saying I don't want this person's life showing up in mine, whatever the route. If you're not a big FB user, you could always take a step further and decide to close your account. Email the people you want to stay in touch with. You can always start a new one down the line if it suits you. But there was life before FB!


Me: 53 H:38
T:20 M:14
BD ILYB etc 10/15, H diagnosed severe depression
S 1/16
PA 4/16
H filed 1/17