So timing is everything and I didn't find the right moment to have our "You do not get to just glaze over July's behavior" talk.

Reconciliation is going to require more than just excusing your behavior to stressful times.

I plan to discuss how and when is the best way to have this conversation.

As always any recommendations are appreciated.

M 53 W 54, M since 98
D15, D19
8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM
until 10/14
7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR
12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.