Just a quick update:

The W and I spent labor day together hiking and talking. We talked like friends about our hopes and dreams. She seemed to talk about grandiose ideas which did not include a man (myself included). When we got home for the day, she went right back into P/A mode saying something about what a great guy I am and how she hopes I can find a really nice girl. I shouldn't of but I told her that discussing adultry of any kind was offensive to me. This led to a several hour conversation in which she said that she never felt loved by me. When I asked her if she ever felt love from any man, she said no. So in a nutshell she doesn't know how to accept love and I do a poor job of showing it. By the end of the conversation she said that it's too late to save any relationship because ours has been over for so long. Then she throws out that my GAL is proof that I don't care about her. She went on and on as if trying to justify ways that I don't love her. Are all of these things sign that DBing is working or just more confirmation that this is over?


BD: 5/28/17 "We're like roommates, there is no passion anymore"
Early October she is moving out so she can "think about what she really wants in life"
10/22/17 She's gone