Wow, I truly appreciate your input. All your comments are quite insightful.
A few days ago, after several day without contacting one another, an unexpected event occurred. W called me saying that she misses me and wants me. Then W proceed to inquired about me: are you talking with anybody, etc. I responded "no, but I am moving on with my life," and then evaded as much as I could evade. After about one hour, she was somehow bother, "you sound mechanic," "cold," etc. Then, I didn't give it much attention.
This morning I send her a text saying something like "I wake up thinking of you." A tinny "chasing" to see what happens. And... she didn't answer at all!! It seems that W's previous conversation was a trap.
Is this common? Did I missed an opportunity to get closer to her by keeping emotional distance during the conversation? What are we suppose to do? I need help with this one.
