So before I went to church wife and I got into a huge argument. I'm not gone lie, I was in a fed up mood. I asked her what the he'll are we doing. I told her I'm keeping the house.
Backstory on the house: So when she hit me with the she fed up in June, she told me that she wanted me to pay the Mortgage, pay the car note, move out and find a apartment and pay all the amenities at this apartment and also provide her child support. I went along with that until this morning. I told her only a fool would do that.
So this morning, I told her she cheated, I'm not moving out. (She tried to justify herself). I'm keeping this house. My son ran down and was upset at the commotion, so I left the conversation and went to church. I actually joined the church today. Church was awesome.
The message at church was sometimes GOD has to burn down somethings in your life to give you your true blessing. The pastor preached on the story of JOB.
So after I got back home after Church, we went on a drive to Home Depot together and got down to the meat. She hits me with "she's confuse and this is hard". She owe it to herself to see if the OM is meant to be. But its hard because I'm a provider and he's a risk. WTF.
She also said she don't want to move out until she gets on her feet. (No time frame for that). She keeps saying she dont know. Shes confuse. She confusing everyone else with her confusion.
Any suggestions?
This is great. You're standing up for yourself. That's already making her "confused". Keep it up and soon enough she'll be begging you. OM is a douche bag. He won't hold up. Do GAL and really rock it. Seriously, become the best version of yourself you've ever been. Challenge yourself. Plan your future. Disregard her future. If you plan and execute yours she'll want to be part of it.
