Her Dad is going to temporarily move out of their house (50+ years) and into a retirement community for a month. W is going out there for a week in Sept. to help. She's also going to Spain in October for a week with a bunch of college friends.
Before the lunchtime meltdown, she asked if I minded that she's going to see him for a whole week. I told her that given my work situation, a week at a time for two months in a row is a lot to put on me, with two teenagers and their activities. So, if she could shorten the trip to see Dad, it would make it easier on me.
She talked to him tonight - he's really happy she's going there, and she wants to talk with me about "what we talked about at lunch." I'll talk to her about the trip but don't want to talk more about D and have her erupt again. Not sure how to handle other than avoid it. I don't see anything in Sandi's rules to address when S wants to talk but LBH doesn't.
