Over and over again i see in other threads trust your gut? Well my gut tells me something bad is going to happen and my DBing is less then ideal...
While it's not a black or white rule...
DB'ing doesn't really advocate trusting your gut. In fact is more about shutting your brain off and doing things counter to what your head or gut say.
For example:
Stop scheduling dates/lunches!
Stop having R talks!
Stop mind reading!
Stop overthinking!
Start GAL'ing.... if your mind is racing on the weekend, it means you need more GAL's.
Me: 43 M: 10y S:15 ILYBINILWY 2/18/13 W moved out 2/18/13 Filed for D: 2/17/13 Got DB: 2/20/13 Got DR: 2/23/13 180 & LRT Began: 2/25/13 D Final Dec '13