Drastic changes & mixed signals - what to do?

[LAJar]

My friend just found a pic of him and OW on Facebook from yesterday. My heart is racing. I don't know what to do.

daisy, Another similar aspect to our stories. I had just also found a picture of him and OW on social media. I feel like H knows I might see this pic and doesn't even care, so add another notch to the hurt tally. You're not crazy for wanting your H back even after what he's done. Up until a few weeks ago, as far as you were concerned, you were in a committed marriage. With that being said, you have to take his actions at face value. I think because you're open to sex, he's going to continue with you and OW. Think of all of the potential consequences of that scenario. IMHO, not good.
You can still want your H, but at this point, he's not showing you anything to make yo believed he'd like to reconcile. You have to DB, for your own sanity. If it's meant to be, he'll realize what he's losing and come back.
In my posting, I asked you about selling the house because it seemed like he was on the road to moving on and you were waiting for him to come to his senses and come home. Doesn't mean you won't reconcile, it just doesn't seem like that's happening anytime soon.
Take care of yourself and your kids. Continue to read DB, GAL and try to detach as much as possible.