Hi Teppo, welcome back and glad to hear you're doing well. It is indeed exhilarating and affirming to know there are plenty of available women out there who will be interested in you.
Glad you're detaching and no you can't detach too much. It's okay to offer to have W join you with your son, it's good for him. Just do it with no expectations so you can't be disappointed.
Stay strong!
Acc
Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11 Start Reconcile: 8/15/11 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced) In a New Relationship: 3/2015