I want to think that's where her fog will be lifted...if this ever gets to the point where we talk to the kids, they will shatter her visions of how "fine" they will be. She has no idea, but I do, because I've lived it.
If she comes from a broken home I wouldn't count on it. The kids didn't stand in my W's way, she chose to still leave and even told me she knew she was being selfish and the kids are resiliant they we will be great because we will be the best co-parents ever.