She has a thread over in Newcomers. I have put the link as the second posting on this thread.
daisy,
It's not a "db" way of doing things in exposing the affair. If you do expose the affair, you may push them together even more so. The best thing that I can suggest is to wait a while. Sometimes affairs burn out and they really have to die their own natural death w/o the help of others fanning them. One thing...please get yourself checked out by you doctor. If he's sleeping w/you and then sleeping elsewhere w/someone else...you need to be careful.
Please read the homework that I have left for you on this thread.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
