This is a quote from Pride and Prejudice, W's favorite book. I have known it for a while, but I feel it applies to me right now

“I do not pretend to possess equal frankness with your ladyship. You may ask questions which I shall not choose to answer.” …

“You are resolved to have him?”

“I have said no such thing. I am only resolved to act in that manner, which will, in my own opinion, constitute my happiness, without reference to you, or to any person so wholly unconnected with me.”

Married 9: Together 11
M:37 W:35
S:2 D:7
Bomb dropped 6/3/2017
W moved out 7/1/2017
Separation Filed: 8/1/2017
Modified to Divorce: 8/21/2017
Divorced: 10/5/2017