Originally Posted By: Jim1234
Originally Posted By: Jmstl
We going to DW together next June. In my mind, my long term goal is to either reconnect then, or be reconnected by then

I would caution against setting up timelines. I suspect they will lead to disappointment.


Yes, but doesn't MWD even state in her book to set specific goals?

Ie, for me, a goal is to get a genuine compliment from W by the end of OCT, and a real sit down discussion not about kids or money by the end of november.


Married 9: Together 11
M:37 W:35
S:2 D:7
Bomb dropped 6/3/2017
W moved out 7/1/2017
Separation Filed: 8/1/2017
Modified to Divorce: 8/21/2017
Divorced: 10/5/2017