I replied

Dear H

Please note that I’m assuming this includes disposing of all the things you do not want as you said you would, including clearing the loft and shed. I will remove the last few things I want by the end of this month.

I’m pretty snowed as my mother’s house is also due to complete in October, so clarity on time/dates would be helpful. Given this, could you also update the shared calendar for September please asap

I am still waiting to hear your thoughts on all the other outstanding stuff and I guess the clock is now ticking faster. When should I expect to hear from you on this?

W


I feel angry. The way my STBXH has treated me after almost 19 years is despicable. He is a shoddy excuse for a man. Whatever happened to him, the choices he has made mean he has chosen to be a sh*tty husband, friend and human being. I did nothing to warrant this and he has made everything harder for me than it needed to be. If he were here right now, I would punch him in the face.


Me: 53 H:38
T:20 M:14
BD ILYB etc 10/15, H diagnosed severe depression
S 1/16
PA 4/16
H filed 1/17