My DB hope is that we can have a positive relationship, start talking about things other than the children and maybe go on a date by next June. Originally I had hoped with could start reconciliation talks by November. I know she is worried about how to support the kids on just her income (Yeah, me too, and you make 10k more a year than I do!)We going to DW together next June. In my mind, my long term goal is to either reconnect then, or be reconnected by then.

I have heard that she is planning to have a divorce party with one our mutual friends immediately after the divorce is final.


Married 9: Together 11
M:37 W:35
S:2 D:7
Bomb dropped 6/3/2017
W moved out 7/1/2017
Separation Filed: 8/1/2017
Modified to Divorce: 8/21/2017
Divorced: 10/5/2017