Today I get kick this hurt feeling. I feel you on being hurt. I think by becoming a person that is not a def, will start to put us back in a position of our spouses having to make a conscious choice. Right now they dont have to think if we will be there, we have to pull away to make them doubt our presence in their lives.
I agree it does hurt. It's our turn to become happy. And time for us to to relieve some of this hurt.
Let's get to DBing.
Can you read my thread and offer some advice on my situation.
M:37 W:37 T:11 M:10 S17, S13, S10, S4 BD:06/28/17 OM confirmed 07/20/17 Recon the M 10/29/17 Working hard:2gether
Onward and forward
This process is not a sprint it's a marathon! Patience, Patience, Patience.