indeed. I hear you and btw, I took no offense by your remarks. Maybe a tiny streak of resistance from my ego.
Yes, the tests - I've called 5 neuro psychologists (PhD, not MD) and so far my insurance company won't pay any of it. And it's $1500-1800 for the tests. Ouch.
If you know any near DC, I'm all ears.
Yikes, it's in just over a month. Oh, not sure if I mentioned this, but h's lawyer filed a vocational evaluation for me in CA in April.
(SIDENOTE I asked to pay for part of it IF I could stay in LA with my kids for the connecting flight. As my L was talking to H's, I got a ticket for the flight in my email and it was NOT what I asked for. H paid more, but did NOT give me an extra day for connecting in LA where the kids are.
*I was not asking for ANY increased costs to him. But I was told h "didn't want to pay for a week's vacation"....wait, what??? What crazy brain filter is he wearing?? I'll call it "The colander of evil". You'd think HE had the seizures. )
ANYHOW, the report came back from HIS expert witness in May. So far, they are not using it for court. It seems his lawyer's assertion (from h, no doubt) that I can "easily earn more than h", is not supported by his own expert. Nor is his demand/suggestion that I relocate to Texas b/c that is where I'm licensed. His expert thinks it makes more sense for me to be near a support system personally AND professionally. Like I have said a hundred times...
I wish it was possible for me to "easily earn more" than h! So far, the cost of that expert for h, is just more money he spent to annoy me, model selfish idiocy to our kids, and to no legal avail. Sheesh...
Happy Labor Day, be glad you're not actually in labor, etc.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
