Nobody on here can tell you how to feel. I know I would be hurt and feeling like you. We have two options in situations like these give up or DB. I'm starting to see the more I letgo/Detach to better I DB. Detaching is good for us. It keeps out of emotional decisions. I've notice also, every time I let myself get emotional and approach my wife the outcome is worst. Take a logical approach to this situation and see if you get a different outcome then approching it emotionally.
Take my experience of emotional approach not ending well.
Joejoe1
Definitely will detach. I'm so hurt.
________________________ M: 35 H: 36 M: Together 16 years; M 6 S14, D12 BD: 8/11 H Moved Out: 8/13 PA confirmed: 9/2 H Back Home: 9/27 OW Says she's pregnant/R on hold: 10/12
