Rats! NC plan looks like it's going to have to change. Just received an offer on the house (good) but means will need to interact about practicalities with Horrid Husband. Who, of course, hasn't done any of the things he said he would do a few weeks ago...

Have also accepted offer on mother's house so feeling a bit p***ed off and overwhelmed by dealing with everything solo...grrr...will take it as a gift from God about moving forward. STBXH hasn't applied for Decree Absolute. I'm starting to wonder if I will on 18th October when legally I can. Not sure how I'd feel about doing that, tbh. Would be one hell of a 180 surprise for him though!

2018 early resolutions...a year without lawyers, a year without MLC madness and a year (to quote Jay Z & Kanye) where "all my pain will be champagne".


Me: 53 H:38
T:20 M:14
BD ILYB etc 10/15, H diagnosed severe depression
S 1/16
PA 4/16
H filed 1/17