Daisy82,

Nobody on here can tell you how to feel. I know I would be hurt and feeling like you. We have two options in situations like these give up or DB. I'm starting to see the more I letgo/Detach to better I DB. Detaching is good for us. It keeps out of emotional decisions. I've notice also, every time I let myself get emotional and approach my wife the outcome is worst. Take a logical approach to this situation and see if you get a different outcome then approching it emotionally.

Take my experience of emotional approach not ending well.

Joejoe1


M:37 W:37
T:11 M:10
S17, S13, S10, S4
BD:06/28/17
OM confirmed 07/20/17
Recon the M 10/29/17
Working hard:2gether

Onward and forward

This process is not a sprint it's a marathon! Patience, Patience, Patience.