Nobody on here can tell you how to feel. I know I would be hurt and feeling like you. We have two options in situations like these give up or DB. I'm starting to see the more I letgo/Detach to better I DB. Detaching is good for us. It keeps out of emotional decisions. I've notice also, every time I let myself get emotional and approach my wife the outcome is worst. Take a logical approach to this situation and see if you get a different outcome then approching it emotionally.
Take my experience of emotional approach not ending well.
Joejoe1
M:37 W:37 T:11 M:10 S17, S13, S10, S4 BD:06/28/17 OM confirmed 07/20/17 Recon the M 10/29/17 Working hard:2gether
Onward and forward
This process is not a sprint it's a marathon! Patience, Patience, Patience.